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Scripture
Matthew 6:1-18
Series
Matthew
Speaker
Keith Goad
Date
16 March 2025
Length
45 minutes

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Your father sees you

Good morning. One of my favorite parts of our service is our singing together. It's amazing how we can publicly unite our voice to praise God together, to encourage one another with the gospel truths, to share as one voice a witness to the world that can hear the gospel sung. It's one of the many things we do in public together. I highlight this because we need to make sure we understand the importance of the Christian faith as a public faith. It must do works in public. Baptism is a public proclamation of someone leaving the world by faith in Christ and coming into his kingdom. They were dead, but now they're alive in Christ. the Lord's Supper that we'll celebrate tonight at our members meeting in a very unique way that you will not want to miss if you're a member. Remembering Christ, rejoicing in his salvation together as we affirm each other as fellow believers, taking this supper together that we all participate in because we all are united with Christ. Make sure we understand that Christianity is a public religion. There's been an odd sentiment of a personal belief that's merely personal and a private religion that comes somewhat out of revivalism and individualism. Christianity is at the heart a union, a relationship with Christ that unites us with other believers, other members who have believed in him. It does require what we do in private. but it also requires we do in public. This week's passage, we're gonna look at just that repetition. Do not do in public before men, but do in secret before God. That was a repeated pattern I hope you heard and that you will see over and over again. Be warned of what you do regularly in public before men. Be focused on what you do in secret for the glory of God. As we wrestle with this, I wanna make sure we remember Matthew 5, 16.

Let your light shine before the world so they will see your good works and glorify God.

We have to hold these two teachings of our King together. There's an importance of why we worship and how we worship and what we do in secret, and there's an importance of what we do in public and how we do it in public and why. We do it in public. There's an important calling for us to wrestle with the particular problem he's warning us of and why we worship. A long one-sentence summary of our text, do not practice righteousness for the praise of man, but practice for your Father who always sees us and rewards obedience. Do not practice righteousness for the praise of man, but practice for your father who always sees us and rewards obedience. If you look at our text, verse one is really a summary statement.

Beware of practicing your righteousness before other people in order to be seen by them. for then you'll have no reward from your Father who is in heaven.

There's the summary principle that Jesus is teaching. Then he gives us three specific ways in which we might practice righteousness before men, not for the Father. Two to four is giving to the needy. Five to 15 is praying. 16 to 18 is fasting. Now I'm going to take 7 to 15 and look at that next week because that's his own section on praying more specifically. I want us to see the pattern of what Christ is warning us against, warning us of, and pushing us toward. He's telling us be careful of how you might worship for men rather than worshiping God. The structure of the sermon isn't going to be give to the needy prayer and fast. Rather, I want us to look at the pattern of each one of these particular ways in which he gives us instruction. What are we practicing? For whom are we practicing? Why are we practicing? What are we practicing for whom and why? Before we jump into 2 through 18, let's just look at verse 1. The simple summary will give us this understanding of structure and emphasis of what he's giving us. The first word, beware. It's a warning. Caution ahead. Be careful what you're about to do. Be aware and be careful. Watch out for yourself here. Beware. Be warned of practicing righteousness. We are all called to practice righteousness because we're supposed to be getting better at righteousness. We're called here to recognize a warning, to get the full heave-ho of this important warning. The emphasis, beware of practicing righteousness before men, before your fellow humans, before your neighbor, He just finished saying you should love your neighbor. Here it's a warning about what you do with your neighbor, before your neighbor. Be careful of practicing righteousness before them, and the purpose is where it's at, in order to be seen by them. That's the rub. If you remember Matthew 5.20, your righteousness must exceed that of the Pharisee. Here's one of the key clues as to knowing what that means. It can't be merely external. It can't be purely performance of outward behavior. It must be internal. It must relate to your heart. Not just the murder, but the anger. Not just the adultery, but the lust. The Pharisees were all about practicing righteousness, but they did not have a love for God. a desire to worship him, a desire to know him and make him known. Rather, they wanted to be seen. We see here in this passage, there's two ways to live. Your best life now, gathering all the different treasures on earth that you possibly can have by getting attention to yourself, are treasures in heaven. Confident that your heavenly father, he's not distant, he sees you, and he rewards Obedience. A key question that comes out of the verse one, what are you practicing? There's a warning or an encouragement because the reality is whatever you're practicing, you're getting better at. That's either a great encouragement or it's terrifying. What are you practicing? Because by God's design, you are getting better at what you practice. Before we move on to the outline, I also want to make sure we see there's a wonderful theology of God presented here. God is our Father in heaven who sees us. God is our Father in heaven who sees us. He sees us when we do in public. He sees what we do in private. His eyes are turned towards us. Just like we're encouraged in prayer that his ear is always ready, his eyes are always watching, his children, all children want to be seen by their father. A good father is paying attention to their children and wanting to delight in the fun activities and their growth and their wisdom and their learning to be wise according to God. God is the perfect father who's always paying attention. God is the good father who delights in his children, who longs to see his children. God is our father because we are united with Christ and therefore adopted in Christ by the father and the Holy Spirit resides in us. All of God has turned his direction towards us. Christian, your father sees you. What a glorious, truth to embrace as one of the most significant truths you can understand and seek to live your life under, your father sees you. That's so comforting in trouble. Your father sees you. It's terrifying in sin. Your father sees you. But it's helpful to see every part of life is worship. Every thought, every deed, every word, your father is longing to see you walking in his ways because of his son and his spirit. Your father sees you. And he rewards obedience. Look at the word reward repeated. Verse one, they then will have no reward. Verse two, I say to you, they have received their reward. Verse four, and your father who sees in secret will reward you. Verse five, truly I say to you, they have received their reward. Verse six, and your father who sees in secret will reward you. Verse 16, truly I say to you, they have received their reward. And guess what verse 18 says? Your father who sees you in secret will reward you. That repetition is important. Father who sees you as a generous God who rewards obedience. The father who has given you generously by sending his own son to give you salvation, rewards obedience generously. So our outline now as we think through this big picture, what are you practicing? For whom are you practicing? Why are you practicing? First, what are you practicing? Now, we were in the Sermon on the Mount. We're walking through the Gospel of Matthew. We've been really slowing down through Matthew. We could go back and we look at the different blessings of Christ. He's our king, telling us what it means to be citizens of his kingdom. He relates himself to the law, he is the fulfillment of the law, he is the teacher of the law. He then tells us these six different teachings, we finished last time we were together, about anger and lust, divorce, oaths, retaliation, love your enemies. He had been correcting a wrong view of sin and a wrong interpretation of scripture that was seeking to find ways around obedience. For example, Love your neighbor, well that also includes your enemy or the person you think is your enemy. Adultery, that's also lust. Murder, that's also anger. He's correcting wrong behavior and wrong interpretation of the law. Chapter six is a different direction, a different correction. Here he's challenging the sin of self-righteousness. He's challenging the sin of false religion. Here he's calling out those who would want to be religious before men and want to get the praise for being super religious and great among the religious people. Do not practice for the sake of man. Whatever you practice, it must be for God. Now, let's just be very clear though, the things they're practicing are good. Give to the needy. That's true and undefiled religion, right? James 1. Care for the widow. Care for the orphan. We could go through all the scripture and see that command regularly patterned as something good, that is a good practice. Prayer. Jesus already commanded that you would pray for your enemy. He's going to go into a long teaching on how exactly you should pray. We have 150 Psalms, they're prayers. How good is it that God doesn't just give us commandments on what to hear and believe and do, but he even gives us prayers back to himself. That's how important prayer is. It's impossible to be a Christian without prayer. Prayer is a good practice. Fasting. There's numerous fasts described in scripture. Here it's assumed it might be prescribed, that you would be doing it. Prayer is a more intense form of, fasting is a more intense form of prayer that also includes self-denial. It's giving the time you would have for eating and consuming strength and food to seeking God in prayer and finding strength from God. It adds to prayer an element of denial of yourself. All these practices are good. There's nothing wrong with what he's describing as unique to what the Pharisees are doing, or the hypocrites are doing. So if you think about these things, they're supposed to be practiced the right way. But if you think about what you're practicing, Christian, let's just pause here and ask, how is your prayer life? Prayer is how we Seek to align ourselves with God, his goodness, his truth, and his will. It's seeking to lift up our desires to God and let them be refined. It's seeking to not inform him of something new, but to know he is a good God and we can trust him. He already knows what we need before we ask him. Prayer is essential for Christian living. And I believe it's something trained more than taught. It's caught more than taught. Prayer is essential for us as a church because we must unite together in prayer. We must pray together to be united in the mission of Christ, be united in our love and care for each other. Fasting. Again, scripture describes different kinds of fast. There's not one prescribed kind of fast. I remember the first time I tried fasting, I didn't really know what it was, so I just thought I wouldn't eat. I was really hungry that day, and I gained no spiritual good from it. And understand, you're setting aside that time and energy to depend upon God in prayer. Fasting is committing yourself to trust God, and you're wanting to lift up something. It's especially uniquely helpful in a trial, in a temptation. It's a way of denying yourself of something basic that God has designed you to need, food, to lean in on Him and trust Him and depend upon Him uniquely. Fasting is prayer with a self-denial. Giving to the needy. Jesus talks about money regularly. How little we want to actually talk about it, Christians give. Here it's a call to give to the needy. There's other commands where you're giving for the purpose of kingdom building. Christians are called to be generous because they know their Heavenly Father is generous. We seek to be generous because we know God is not stingy. We want to make sure we understand that the things they're doing are good. The things they're doing are commanded and expected of God. Christian, we must understand we must practice these things, but practicing them according to God, according to his word, and together is necessary. Second section, the second point that we will consider. For whom are you practicing? So what they're doing isn't the problem, it's why. or for whom, this is the heart of the passage. Motivations matter. Your motivation in obedience matters. Why are you praying, fasting, and giving? Who is your intended audience? Are you doing it before men or are you doing it for God? Religion isn't just doing the right thing, it's doing the right thing according to God's way. Worship is worshiping the right God according to his word. We see here that faith is required to have a true worship. That is unique to Christianity. Other religions can tell you if you do this, this, and this, then you are worshiping. No, it isn't the mere practice. It's leaning toward and moving towards God in obedience because of his grace. Now, if we look at the real problem, look at verse two, when they give the needy, they sound a trumpet, they make everybody's looking, as the hypocrites do in the synagogue, and that purpose clause, that's the key, that they may be praised by others. They give the needy so that they might be praised by others. Look at verse five, when you pray, you must not be like the hypocrites who love to stand and give long elaborate prayers in the street corner. Why? The purpose, that they may be seen by others. And then verse 16, they disfigure their face when they're fasting, that their fasting may be seen by others. Those three purpose clause, they put their finger on the problem. They're seeking to do good things, but they have the wrong audience in mind. They have the wrong direction. This is really scary and disturbing. You can sin by praying. Let that sink in, how twisted we are in our sin. how we can take everything God has given us that's good and twist it and ruin it, degrade it. And here, this religious sin is the most twisted and terrifying. Self-righteousness in this form is so terrifying because it is, in its most basic form, self-deceiving. Because we pretend we're good, we're doing all the right things, and we do it before others, so they come along and say, way to go, you're doing amazing. Oh, the terrifying way that self-righteousness and false religion twist us. This is why Jesus warns us in this threefold way. He's repeating four different times the problem. because it's dangerous. There's layers and complexities with our sin. So we must, Christian, test what we do and why we do it and how we do it. True worship is being obedient to God according to his word for his glory. Jesus is warning of a false worship of ourselves. Now, I want to speak to you, church. I don't see this as a prevalent sin among our church. I praise God for the sincere faith of seeking to practice righteousness, but this sin must be on our radar because a church that seeks to be obedient can find this temptation too alluring. If there's a sin we're going to lean towards, it's doing what is good for the praise of man, not for the praise of God. I praise God for the desire to do what is right, to practice righteousness that I do believe comes from sincere faith. But I wanna make sure that this warning is good for us. It's mindful to be understanding what we might lean towards. We see other kinds of problems all over the place out there. I wanna say this is the sin we need to be worried about in what we do and why we do it. Now here's the main rub, we can look at verses two and three. When you give to the needy, be warned of practicing your righteousness before people. Don't sound a trumpet. Don't let your left hand know what your right hand's doing. Make sure you're not doing it to be praised by others, but do it for God. Now that left hand not knowing what the right hand's doing, I think that's just for your own pride. You're not letting yourself buy into the lie of what pride is and why you're giving, much less seeking to let others build up your pride. The righteous man, he does not do it for the praise of man. He does it for the praise of God. Now, just wrestle with how weird that is. I want to give to the needy so that man will praise me. There is one God and he alone should be worshipped. This false religion is a God problem. This false religion is a God problem. It's thinking I should be praised. They're wanting to draw attention to me in this kind of sin. They've gotten worship upside down, that's what's wrong. They're not doing it for the glory of God, they're doing it for their own, they're glory thieves. Five and six, prayer.

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And when you pray, you must not be like the hypocrites, for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and the street corners that they may be seen by others.

What's weird about that? They pray to be seen by others. The act of prayer is using words to be heard. They're praying to be seen. That's already kind of weird. They're praying so that others would not hear their words, but be seen by them. They're praying so that others would see them and think, wow, how spiritual, how great, how honorable they must be. Fasting, they just figure their face. They make it public with an appearance. We're setting aside some thing right now. Look how spiritual we are in how we sacrifice for God. Jesus calls us to be faithful in public and private. The emphasis here is you need to be obedient and secret. It's not performing and practicing righteousness for the purpose of man praising you, but it's for all to praise God. Now, this is a real problem. We're all born sinners. We all inherit what we call original sin. Because Adam and Eve rejected God and rebelled against him, we're all born in sin and we have a twisted heart. We call this total depravity. Every deed, every desire, even our best idea is tainted and twisted by sin. We are not as sinful as we could be by God's grace, but everything is marred by sin now. Everything is tainted by sin. And if we're all honest, let's be honest, we regularly have all sorts of motives. And this is because of who we are. That old man, that old self, that sinful self, that's still present. Even though by God's grace, the Holy Spirit indwells you and has given you a new heart, both of these are producing desires. You're quenching one and seeking to be filled by the other. It's an either or. We have all kinds of mixed motives and desires because as God's righteous children, he is producing righteous desires in us by his spirit. And we still have the unrighteous desires as sinners. Let me try to give you an example. Right this second, I hope you hear God's word. I hope you hear God's authority from his word. I hope you fear him and love him and obey him. I hope you see the beauty of his word and how clear Christ is in what he's teaching. And I kinda hope you think I'm smart and funny. I sinfully hope you'll walk away and say, man, he's really dope, legit, and slays. Did I use that right? If everyone waited till they had every perfect motive without any mixture, no one would preach. No one would pray. No one would sing. That's the complexity of who we are. Saint who has sinned. Saints who still have sinned. That's the complexities of who we are. By God's grace, he's patient. By God's grace, he's generous. By God's grace, he's renewing and we can learn by practicing to be more faithful and to set aside more and more of that taintedness and twistedness and selfishness. It's something we have to pray through. It's something we have to practice through. I share this because there are folks who have sensitive consciences. They see this verse and they want to make sure they're not doing something for the wrong reason because of this warning. I praise God for that. But I fear too often those sensitive consciences end up not doing what is right because they're so afraid of that little motive or that sense. I'm afraid of doing it like a hypocrite. I'm afraid because I sense inside of me a desire to be seen by others. Christian, there's always going to be that sad selfishness until Christ returns and restores us fully. We must pray through, practice through, and encourage each other in that. One of the best ways to grow out of that is by practicing righteousness and seeing how foolish and helpless you are in your own strength. If your sins are about what you did before men, you're not the clear target of this teaching. If you're sensitive about it, you're not the target he has in mind. He is addressing someone who's doing it only for the praise of man. This is why we practice righteousness with one another, towards one another. It's important that we encourage each other. Now, let's be clear, we are supposed to be encouraging each other in faithfulness and ministry. It's one of the ways we help people in the midst of thinking through why they do something and how they do it. That's also, you're not supposed to practice righteousness for the encouragement of others. You do it for the glory of God. Jesus' prescription.

When you give, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing so that you may, so that your giving may be in secret and your father who sees in secret will reward you.
When you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your father who is in secret and your father who sees in secret will reward you.
When you fast, anoint your head and wash your face, that your fasting may not be seen by others, but by your father who is in heaven, your father who sees in secret will reward you.

Christian, what are you doing when no one's looking? The prescription is what you do in secret. If your problem is you want to be seen by others in religious practices, repent and seek God in secret, where he alone will reward your faithfulness and build your faithfulness up. But let's just be clear how important what we do in secret is. What do we look at in secret? What do we think about? When no one else is looking, what are we doing? Are we doing the Lord's work in private and in public? Are we seeking to have a godly home so that when we come to church, we're ready to give? Not just be seen, but serve and be poured out. We should be learning to do from the church what we should be doing in secret, and we should be producing in the church what we're doing in private. This is called the inside out godliness or faithfulness. You're to have a heart turned towards Him that is obedient in private, in public, in your home, in your church, in your work, on your walk. Whatever we do, we must do for the glory of God. We're to have lives that worship and rejoice in God at all times. A couple of rules. Do not practice in secret what you would never do in public. Do not practice in secret what you would never do in public. What we do in private should then be easily folded into what we do with other believers in public. Pray, be kind, gracious, promote holiness. Why are you practicing? Our last question. That emphasizes the last point of each of the sections. So verse two ends with, they've already received the reward. Verse four ends, the father who sees in secret will reward you. Verse five, they've already received the reward. Verse six, your father who sees in secret will reward you. Verse 17, I'm sorry, verse 16, they've already received the reward. And 17, your father who sees in secret will reward you. Who's your audience? The father? or others, but now, why? Jesus has mentioned rewards a few times already. The persecuted, they will be rewarded. Last time we were together, if you only greet those who are like you, what reward is there? If you only greet like the Gentiles, what reward is there? Notice the hypocrites, they performed to be seen by men and praised by men. That is their reward. If they want an earthly reward, that's it. Just to draw your attention to it, the very next section is building up treasures in heaven versus on earth. The earthly rewards are doing things for praise and glory here. Heavenly rewards is seeking to do what only God sees and being faithful when only God sees so that you're building up heavenly eternal reward. They have no reward from our Father who is in heaven, in verse one. It's because they're seeking the reward now, their own praise to be seen. But God, your Father, when he sees you, He sees what you do in secret. He sees your heart. He sees your mind. He sees you and knows you better than you know yourself. When he sees your obedience, he rewards you. This is something Jesus is speaking of regularly here. We've got reward over and over again. We've seen this a couple of times. The promise of reward is seen throughout the New Testament. Called crowns in another place. To be very clear, the gospel of Jesus Christ is that by his grace, you believe and are saved. Not by works. That's the Protestant bread and butter. You're saved by grace through faith. You are not saved by works. You are not saved by works, you are saved for good works. We must have this in its proper place to know and rejoice and enjoy the fullness of who God is and his rewards. God gives eternal life because of the work of Christ. God gives eternal life because of the work of Christ. God gives heavenly reward because of our good works. Let's make sure we have those two categories very clear and distinct. You're given eternal life because of Christ. You're given reward because of good works. And just to make sure we understand, the only way you can do good work is because of grace. One reward for godly faithfulness we've already seen in Matthew 5a.

Blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God.

If there's a reward beyond that, That's the one I want. To be reunited face to face and rejoice in God? To see him because of his grace? To see his glory? I believe the reward goes beyond that or it's underneath that in different ways, but what a reward to see God, to behold his glory. To know him more truly. Another reward, God hears your prayers. He hears you as his own child. Another reward from Matthew 25, well done good and faithful servant. This concept of reward is tricky because grace, faith, works is There's a right concern to make sure we get that right. If you wanna go to a passage that I think makes it most clear, it's 1 Corinthians 3. Here Paul says,

if the work that anyone has built on the foundation survives, he will receive a reward. If anyone's work is burned up, he will suffer loss, though he himself will be saved. but only as through fire.

We see the clear category, you're saved. And then there's works that are either burned up or works that lead to a reward. That's worthy of your lunch discussions today. There are two categories. There's a judgment unto salvation. There's a judgment of those who were saved and their works done on this earth. Oh, to be very clear here, Your salvation cannot be lost. Let's do a louder amen. Your salvation cannot be lost. Because you didn't find it, God did. By God's grace, he blesses us with faith. Salvation in Christ is secure and certain. The gospel says, You simply respond to what everything God has done. You truly must respond, but it's your response by faith. You believe. But you believe all of God's grace, and you believe God's good work, and you believe God's good law, and you believe God's good commandment, and you believe then that there's good works to contribute to your sanctification. You believe that you will know how to know God and enjoy him or as you are more obedient. Remember, he's the good father who's given you his son. What good thing would he ever withhold from you? When we walk in obedience, he is the generous good father who blesses us with reward. We are called by faith to glorify him with our works. The church is built up on service and public ministry of works. Our work in ministry, if it's not built on the foundation of Christ, it's not rewarded. It is what we do and why we do it and who we're doing it for. It can be confusing, but here's good news. God has blessed us with such clarity. He saved us by grace, not by works. And he has given us such clear commands so that we do not have to wonder or find mysterious ways of discovering his will. He's told us. Just go back to the beginning of Matthew 5. Poor in spirit, meek, hunger and thirst for righteousness. Be a peacemaker, be merciful. Do not lust, love your enemy. His commands are clear as to how we obey him. If we walk in his ways, he will bless us with reward. Our father blesses his children's obedience. His face shines upon us. That's a picture throughout the Old Testament of God's blessing, his love, his care. He blesses us with joy and peace and contentment. Let's make sure we get the contrast. Verse two, are we living for the praise of man or are we living to praise God? We are supposed to be light so that men would see our good deeds and praise the Father. But are we seeking to praise God in our ministry to man? Are we seeking the praise of man? Here's a major premise that I believe Jesus is building off of from all of Scripture. Everything we do is worship. Everything you do is worship. Who are you seeking to worship in every aspect of life? Are you seeking to be thought of, are you seeking to glorify God? Delighting in God is in our DNA. The desire to delight in God is in our DNA. In our sin, we find other things to delight in. One of the great challenges here is a love for honor from others is the great sabotage to true piety. A love to be honored by others is the true poison for true piety. Because it makes you want to do good works the wrong way, in an evil way. To want to only do things in public to be seen by others and not doing them in your private conversations. If you delight in sin and you think it's private, God sees you. If you're only doing things to be seen by others, it's a sabotage to your own soul. Our father sent his son to save us, to rule us, to show us what good rule is. Our father in heaven, he sent his son and he always sees us. He delights in us as his children. He longs to see us walking according to his son, as his own sons. Our Father is quick and generous to bless us. And our Father is faithful to discipline us because he loves us. We have the joy of living what we call Coram Deo. Because Christ's spirit is in us and Christ is right here in the Father, our lives are lived up before God. God is our constant audience. We're called to enter boldly into his presence. We are supposed to be living as a living spiritual sacrifice constantly because God sees us in private and in public. What an amazing perspective to have and how the church would be altogether different if we always realized and recognized what we're doing is worship. What we're doing is before the Father. The Father never turns His face away from His children. He sees us. That's good news for us because of grace. It's good news for us when we're seeking to be obedient by His grace. Draw near to your heavenly Father by His grace through faith to glorify Him. Will you pray with me? Father, we thank you that in this same chapter, we are taught to call you Father, because you have shared with us the love you have always had with your eternal Son. We thank you that we can be part of your family. We can be adopted into your church. We can be part of Christ's kingdom. We thank you that you give us good and clear laws and truths Believe and obey. And Lord, thank you for this clarity that we can live for a reward that doesn't rust or rot. We can live for a reward that doesn't destroy our own souls. We can live to be seen by you, to see you, and help others see you, Lord. May we long to live by your grace and obedience to walk in your joy, to love you because you first loved us. In Jesus' name we pray, amen.

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